Be REAL Up Front

Yea, I know you’re getting your hustle on. The big talk makes you sound good. The name droppin seems like its the cool thing to do, but I’m not that baby whose just now gettin the feet wet.

Maybe gettin over on people is your thing, maybe it’s not, but I will say this, if you are going to approach me, come to me right. Come to me professional. Come to me like you have some sense. Don’t assume that I’m an idiot or just because I’m a Black sista that I’m not business savvy. That goes for my team as well.

Don’t attempt to downplay what I do because what I do is my way of living. Everything I do is of strong value. Just be up front with me.

My Momma always taught me not to beat around the bushes. So, I say the same to you, don’t beat around the bushes with me.

It’s just like confronting a person after they did something to you. When you confront somebody, you don’t go to a third and secondary party, you go to the primary person and confront them. After all, we are all grown here. And if you are not the legal grown, you still want to practice being up front with people and with some sense.

It was on my mind. Just being up front because somebody has to, might as well be me!

-LeXXah Drew It-

No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I mean why!!!!!?????

The earth has already been thrown off its axis, meaning time is even shorter. And since then, my time just got more precious than ever. I’m not trying to waste anymore time than I already have for nonsense. It is too demanding of energy.

I can smell it a mile away now. I’m continuously living and learning. At some point in time enough has to be enough. That’s the crazy thing about nonsense, its like a knat that won’t go away. There’s so much nonsense out here that a majority of the time it gets overwhelming, its on overload, its a dumpster full of a whole lot of SH–, and more is on the way. It is a bunch of small things that slowly, but surely get bigger and make you wanna snap when the next person that comes up to you starts talkin’ nonsense.

And have you noticed that everybody seems to claim this so called, “Real Talk”? I mean seriously, that is so played out. “Real Talk” mingles so closely with “Fake Talk” these days. It is equivalent to a thin line between love and hate.

You would think that people would spend a multitude of their time talking and doing things that are a little bit more useful to make life easier. But I’ll tell you what the problem is, so many people are talking the big talk, but are not DOING the big talk. So many people are trying to LOOK like their doing Big things, but ARE NOT doing big things. So many people are so busy expending energy on putting on a facade and doing it in such a way where you are just flat out lying and/or misleading.

The name dropping game is a usual suspect. I don’t know how many times I’ve ran into this person and that person and they start name dropping like flies.

But the short version is, “I’m finished”. Its time to talk to people who are talking about something. I adopted this a long time ago by the way. Its time to start talking to people who are really about something. Its time to talk to people who are action people. Its time to talk to people that value what I bring to the table and I, them. No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its old, annoying, irritating, obnoxious, rude and disrespectful. Somebody out there right now is dealing with the nonsense. Somebody out there is not able to spot or recognize the nonsense. I’m warning you right now, it comes in all shapes and sizes.

I’m way bigger and better than that fluffery. I love myself too much to deal with it and put up with it. Some people are more tolerant than others on people like that, but I’m not. Honestly I just don’t understand it. Networking and working with people and staying up on my craft, bringing something valuable to the table is what I’m about. I’m always working towards reaching my goal and re-strategizing my approach if need be.

So, no more…………..No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ONLY Talkin’ 2 SENSE!!!!!!!

-LeXXah Drew It-

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My Mother’s Spirit

I don’t know how she does it, but she does. Her spirit just makes beautiful music no matter what. It could be a bad storm, A blizzard, an earthquake, a hurricane and still her spirit remains as joyful and pleasant.

No matter what’s going on around her, good or bad, positive or negative. It’s gotta be a gift from the most high. I just have to say that I admire it greatly.

I think I have a little bit of it because I am her daughter, but I don’t believe I received all of it. It is definitely her gift though. A persons energy, vibe, sincerity, love and beauty, all deriving from the inside.

It was in there all along. From the utterance of wisdom to the teachings of the value of upholding your standards. For my mother it’s about channeling her spirit to uplift and brighten up the spirit, morale and confidence of others.

It’s a beautiful gift indeed. One that many, I think would not mind having. To show beauty and love to others and bring out the beauty and love in others. That is what we need more of. I am honored that this is the type of spirit that lives in my Mother. I am truly obliged.

-LeXXah Drew It-

What Should LOVE feel like!?

Let’s start with something easy………for one, it should feel good.

Not just according to the flesh or physically, but spiritually, mentally, emotionally, orally, metaphorically, figuratively and literally.

Love should feel like an abundance of peace and comfort.

Please don’t mistaken the word, “LOVE” for the word, “LUST”. 2 different things, 2 different entities and 2 different words that derive from 2 different sources.

Many people confuse these 2 terms as the same and they’re not. So, I just wanted to address that before I go any further.

In theory, “LOVE” should be & feel unconditional. It should feel light and natural like the air we breathe. The majority of the stress is positive stress. “LOVE” should feel like understanding and knowing that under any circumstances that love purposely will not harm you. The approach is patient and kind. Envious and keeping track of wrongs and holding grudges is not how love should feel.

Love should feel good. Okay, then what is good?

According to Dictionary.com
1. morally excellent; virtuous; righteous
2. satisfactory in quality, quantity, or degree
3. of high quality; excellent.

You know how “LOVE” should feel. So, does it actually feel to you on a daily basis? Does how it should feel match up to how it actually is?

-LeXXah Drew It-

I Ain’t Tryna BUG NOBODY, I Shouldn’t Have To!

I’m valid and credible and I prove myself every single time! Bugging someone isn’t my style, it never has been. For some people its a tactic, but not for me. If you are genuinely GREAT at multiple things, why should you!?

Its called, keepin’ it movin’! The right person and the right people will see the fruits of your labor. They will see the dynamics of what you do. They will marvel at your worth. They will flock to you. They will come. They will show interest in you through their actions not just talk. They will display it publicly and not because you asked them to, demanded them to or told them to.

I will continue to put it out there, what I do and remind people just how cold I am. This isn’t an ego, or boasting or a self-centered attitude. This is a confidence thing and using this God-given talent of mine and sharing it with the world. I’ve heard so many stories on people calling and texting and emailing like crazy to people for all kinds of reasons and it shouldn’t be like that. If you put it out there, people should respect you enough to come to you. And in doing that you just filter through the ones who are about something and the ones who aren’t. REMEMBER: ACTION!!!!!! Speaks louder than words!!!!!

Yo, I’m a songwriter, a hooper, vocal producer, vocal arranger, model, visual artist, stepper and of course a writer. I love what I do and I love who I am! I ain’t tryna bug nobody, I’m just doing me. That’s what I do!

-LeXXah Drew It-

So, Whose Got Yo Back!?

Well other than God and Jesus, I’d like to think, loved ones.

But its not like that for everyone.

When we sit and think about who really has our back, some people say they Momma, they Daddy, they sister, they brother, the god parent, they Auntie, they Uncle, you get the picture.

But nowadays its really hard to really say who has your back until you really go through something that brings you to your lowest point in life.

Theoretically, blood is suppose to always have your back, but we have all seen that this in most cases is NOT true. Sometimes your blood will be the first if not the second to turn their back on you when you hit that major pickle and sometimes the minor ones too. It just all depends.

Everyone would like to believe that blood has your back. But really its like tossing up a coin and hoping that they will be there for you. Nothing is for certain these days. Its the hard truth of life.

People talk about it all the time, mention it on twitter, comment on it on facebook and post pics on Instagram that “I am not perfect,” “I fail daily,” We as people and human beings know this, but still, with that knowledge, people often fall to the forgetfulness of that truth when someone gets into trouble or is going through really tough times.

People begin to condemn and throw stones, talk bad about that person instead of uplifting that person through the known and unknown trial. People make it a point to just make a man feel lower than what his or her predicament already has him or her in. Its really sad when you think about it.

And then those same people want to come back with that same truth of, “I am not perfect,” “I fail daily.” Talk about contradicting. I see it all the time. So, I know someone else does too.

Knowing who really has your back though is important. There are signs that can let you know, such as the minor signs. You gotta know who really supports you when it is all said and done. At some point in our lives we all have some type of situation where we need help or depend on someone to come through.

Don’t deny this. Think very hard before you disagree with that statement. I’d like to think that those who are reading this now, you were once a baby!!!!!!

Listen to the signs, pay attention to your surroundings. Their are clues, signs and messages that advertise this question on a daily basis. You have a right to know this and don’t dare think its a one way ticket. Whose back do you have!?

-LeXXah Drew It-

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Continue 2 Be LOUD!

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Don’t be a SUCKER!

Don’t settle for SILENCE when it comes to your dreams.

So you get DOWN.

Cool………..

But then you get back up, dust yourself off and go even harder.

Witta vengeance.

You’ve heard the word, “No”, “Go On Somewhere”, “kick rocks”

You’ve felt the rejection.

Crushed, tears, heart breaking, smacked in the face……..

It hurts……….

you like WHY!!!????

Somethin’s gotta give right?

Yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But it won’t give unless you CONTINUE 2 Be LOUD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

They gone keep ignoring you.

They gone keep shunning away from you.

They gone keep downplaying what you do.

It can be for all kinds of reasons……..

It can be for this, that and the other.

Man, who cares,

CONTINUE 2 Be LOUD!

Make yo voice heard!

Make it soar.

Make it rain like thunder

Bring the heat in your actions………

Be a student of the game you wish to play in.

Be Positive!

Influence the young wit wisdom.

Uplift yo brotha, yo sista

Don’t do it for me……….for you, do it for us.

Be the sum of the part that makes a community whole.

STOP!

GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Which word did you hear LOUDER!!!!!!!!!?????????????

Stay motivated.

Don’t be scared!

Be tall amongst the trees.

Be firm and spread your arms like the branches.

Reinvent yourself in every quarter of the seasons.

Let your work speak volumes, so that you can speak less.

CONTINUE 2 BE LOUD!

I wrote it for you On Tha Fly!

-LeXXah Drew It-

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