No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I mean why!!!!!?????

The earth has already been thrown off its axis, meaning time is even shorter. And since then, my time just got more precious than ever. I’m not trying to waste anymore time than I already have for nonsense. It is too demanding of energy.

I can smell it a mile away now. I’m continuously living and learning. At some point in time enough has to be enough. That’s the crazy thing about nonsense, its like a knat that won’t go away. There’s so much nonsense out here that a majority of the time it gets overwhelming, its on overload, its a dumpster full of a whole lot of SH–, and more is on the way. It is a bunch of small things that slowly, but surely get bigger and make you wanna snap when the next person that comes up to you starts talkin’ nonsense.

And have you noticed that everybody seems to claim this so called, “Real Talk”? I mean seriously, that is so played out. “Real Talk” mingles so closely with “Fake Talk” these days. It is equivalent to a thin line between love and hate.

You would think that people would spend a multitude of their time talking and doing things that are a little bit more useful to make life easier. But I’ll tell you what the problem is, so many people are talking the big talk, but are not DOING the big talk. So many people are trying to LOOK like their doing Big things, but ARE NOT doing big things. So many people are so busy expending energy on putting on a facade and doing it in such a way where you are just flat out lying and/or misleading.

The name dropping game is a usual suspect. I don’t know how many times I’ve ran into this person and that person and they start name dropping like flies.

But the short version is, “I’m finished”. Its time to talk to people who are talking about something. I adopted this a long time ago by the way. Its time to start talking to people who are really about something. Its time to talk to people who are action people. Its time to talk to people that value what I bring to the table and I, them. No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its old, annoying, irritating, obnoxious, rude and disrespectful. Somebody out there right now is dealing with the nonsense. Somebody out there is not able to spot or recognize the nonsense. I’m warning you right now, it comes in all shapes and sizes.

I’m way bigger and better than that fluffery. I love myself too much to deal with it and put up with it. Some people are more tolerant than others on people like that, but I’m not. Honestly I just don’t understand it. Networking and working with people and staying up on my craft, bringing something valuable to the table is what I’m about. I’m always working towards reaching my goal and re-strategizing my approach if need be.

So, no more…………..No More Talkin’ 2 NONSENSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ONLY Talkin’ 2 SENSE!!!!!!!

-LeXXah Drew It-

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I Ain’t Tryna BUG NOBODY, I Shouldn’t Have To!

I’m valid and credible and I prove myself every single time! Bugging someone isn’t my style, it never has been. For some people its a tactic, but not for me. If you are genuinely GREAT at multiple things, why should you!?

Its called, keepin’ it movin’! The right person and the right people will see the fruits of your labor. They will see the dynamics of what you do. They will marvel at your worth. They will flock to you. They will come. They will show interest in you through their actions not just talk. They will display it publicly and not because you asked them to, demanded them to or told them to.

I will continue to put it out there, what I do and remind people just how cold I am. This isn’t an ego, or boasting or a self-centered attitude. This is a confidence thing and using this God-given talent of mine and sharing it with the world. I’ve heard so many stories on people calling and texting and emailing like crazy to people for all kinds of reasons and it shouldn’t be like that. If you put it out there, people should respect you enough to come to you. And in doing that you just filter through the ones who are about something and the ones who aren’t. REMEMBER: ACTION!!!!!! Speaks louder than words!!!!!

Yo, I’m a songwriter, a hooper, vocal producer, vocal arranger, model, visual artist, stepper and of course a writer. I love what I do and I love who I am! I ain’t tryna bug nobody, I’m just doing me. That’s what I do!

-LeXXah Drew It-

USERS Ain’t HOT in my Book!

We live in a world where using people is more than a trend. For many people its a lifestyle, but to me its just as bad as doing drugs.

The world revolves around no one, we know this. Many people want to be successful, I think we can all agree on that, but I think the question is what is the method of achieving success? What is the strategy for achieving success? What is the ulterior motives and whom are you willing to use to achieve that success?

I can honestly say that using someone to get to where I’m going is not my forte’. The reason being is because, I have something valuable to bring to the table. I have something that I can pitch in to pay my own dues. I do the things that I know I can do on my own and that I have worked so hard to achieve.

I don’t want people to feel that I’m using them for my own gain. I haven’t had one person feel that way about me. That’s not the type person I am. Of course, I can’t say the same about how other people are with me. It sucks that its like that, but unfortunately that’s the way it is.

Everybody is trying to get ahead, but have no honor about the approach. There is no loyalty, there is no integrity. Its like its all about self and I’ve seen it many of times. Now not everyone is like that. There are some good people out here who do understand that it is about supporting each other and uplifting each other, helping one another to reach to the next plateau of our lives and careers.

But I think the main thing with users is that history repeats itself. There are so many people on top that use and squeeze out of those people who aren’t there yet or at their status, that when those people finally get over the hump, instead of learning from what happened to them, they replicate what was done to them to those that were in the same position they were in, when trying to get there.

The using just keeps going. And its a sucky feeling. Why is it that people want to take advantage!!??? Its similar to the question, what do men with power want more of? The answer is power. Some will do anything to get it. Even if it means using someone as a foot stool or using someone to make you look good, like you made them.

I’m saying this loud and clear, “GOD MADE ME WHO I AM!” It is GOD, who has Blessed me with these gifts. It is GOD, who allows me to breath and wake up in the morning. God and His son, Jesus have every right to use me. Anyone beneath them, which is everyone have no right whatsoever to use me. No one on this earth has provided me with the things that God has provided me with and that’s fact in its purest form.

Users ain’t hot in my book at all. I’m not a foot stool, a crutch, a puppet, a gimmick, a look or anything along those lines. I am a business chick!

-LeXXah Drew It-

When People Look Atchu Funny………….

Just look at them funny back.

Rude cancels out rude, it’s just like math. Reciprocate it with class!

They won’t get mad at you or anything. They can’t. You don’t even have to dwell on it. Just keep going. All kinds of distractions will come and try to plague you, your mind, your body, your spirit. But you are better for it. They are challenges that come to help strengthen you. It’s all about how you perceive it, how you handle it, how you take it.

Just be easy. Don’t let a person declare power and dominion over you by letting them control you, control your day and allow you to take speak void words that act as a poison to your being. Don’t even waste your breath, utilize it for something beautiful.

That’s how you look at them funny back, by killing them with kindness, by showing them that you are way BIGGER than someone’s funny lookin’ face. You get grown with them, where, that’s all they can do is look atchu funny, but that’s it, nothing else. They seek your reaction and attention as ultimate glory. They triumph in the way it makes you feel in a negative way.

When people look atchu funny, it is because you do walk the way you walk, talk the way you talk and why you possess what was given to you by a higher being. Then again, it could be just to be nasty. You have those characters out there as well, just lurking around to pose their bitterness and sourness on others.

When people look atchu funny, just know that you have done your job. You received from them what they couldn’t get from you. The fact that they even bothered to make a funny face is a compliment. They noticed you. They gave you attention. You weren’t expecting it, but it came to you in the coolest way.

So just be sure to say,  “Thank you! Thank you for your funny expression and the words that followed behind it, it was beautiful. It was touching. You made me feel like a star! I am that much more closer of accomplishing my goals.” How!!!?? Because you gave me more ammunition!

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The World Is So GOOD at “REJECTING!”

………………because that is what the world knows the best.

The world has rejecting down to a science.

You’d think that with all that this world has to offer to a person that rejection would be the last action on the list, but the world would rather accept those who pay or sacrifice a major price then accept a man or woman for their genuine talent and that’s it.

Its the ulterior motives, the disclaimers, the what are you going to do for me, the what are you going to give up, the limitations unless…….and if you don’t, well, go kick rocks.

You have to give up something that is valuable and/or precious to you. In some cases, sometimes what is being asked of you is your very soul. This is the price in most cases for not being rejected. What are you willing to do and how far are you willing to go to achieve what you desire most in this world?

SMH. The world knows you, knows me, knows us too well. Now, I’m not saying that in some scenarios this may not be true, but there is always some type of price no matter how big or how small.

It could be in the forms of politics, popularity, money, time, sex (including oral), an intangible, a tangible, signing your life and/or your work away, selling your soul, going against your morals or standards, you get the point.

You see, the world’s goal is to squeeze every ounce of innocence out of you, to see how far you will go, to see how much you can take before you break and then comes the back stabbing or vessels to remind you all that you did to get to where you are, focusing mainly on the negative, the bad and the ugly. Think about some of your favorite actors, artists, entertainers and/or celebrities in general. And if you have followed these big time names/people since they first came out, you can see in most of them if not all of them, the 360 change in who they are from when they first came out on the scene.

The influences and pressures of the world have the ability to manipulate who you are and what you will become if granted the blessings of the world. The world wants to take you and mold you into something else. What that is? Well, it varies with each person.

See, we all came to this world as babies. We were ourselves, but as we lived and grew up in this world and created goals and fought for what we believed in, as we matured and formed attitudes and strong emotions and passions and a love for what we did and what we were good at, the world was there witnessing it all. Taking us through different things, creating obstacles to block us from what was to be ours to begin with. Haters were going toe to toe with us. They talked about us behind our backs. We were not liked for the beautiful gifts we possessed. Yes, the world was jealous of us, ever since we were born.

They saw our gifts and our youth and innocence and because we have it compared to those that don’t have it or at one point had it but now they don’t, the world rejects us. Favoritism, politics, money, power and darkness became the ally of the world. They became one. They loved each other so much and understood they had something. They read each others minds and so therefore they were linked.

They made a pack with each other against those that with their gift and having none of the features of the world’s allies, that getting somewhere would be at the mercy of the gate keeper(s).

Did you know that the World is a living organism? Well, guess what, it is. Think of the World as an actual person, a human being. It has the capabilities that any other human has, but it has something else too. It operates as an entity. It has the strengths of both subjects, but the weakness of an entity. It relies on natural and physical elements and chooses not to feel unless it is of close ties with the its allies.

REJECTION!

That is its first nature, its first love. The World is so quick to reject because its just that easy. The World is going to be aight, its going to sustain, its going to make its money and replenish and grow stronger as those beneath it grow weaker. The World wants you and me to ask it for something so that it has the pleasure to say, “No!”

It makes it feel more like a macho man, like it is in power, its in control. What are you going to do? Some people will actually do nothing. They will shake they’re heads, “Yes,” and go back to the norm. And then you have those who fight to the death to the very end, who find it within themselves that rejection will not be accepted nor will it be the last say to their dreams. What do you do when you get knocked down? Do you stay down or do you get back up and do it again.”

What will rejection do to you?

The World has already preconceived what it will do. It is a brick wall. It won’t knock itself down unless you knock it down. This my friend is about character. What will you do when you face adversity?

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They Watch from a Distance………………

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LOL.

Yea, its complicated and frustrating and interesting.

I think it has more to do with your level, your bread and popularity according to who knows you. It has absolutely nothing to do with talent.

So, they wait and watch from a distance. They are never too close where if you don’t make it, they can say that they had nothing to do with you, but they are not too far where if you do make it, they were with you all along.

I know that game, do you?

At some point in time or another, one may go through this. It literally is a watching game. A spectator game.

It is, what can you do for me and if the answer is nothing or it doesn’t have FREE up in there somewhere, its just a keep on walking and don’t say nothing. It looks appealing to look though.

I think it is more about just waiting to see what happens, how your life plays out. People want to see what they can get out of you.

So, here you are, busting your butt to accomplish something larger than life and the distance watchers watching from afar. If the signs are promising and become true, they want in on what you’re doing. They want a piece of the pie.

They are not or were not apart of your struggle, but yet they want to be apart of your success. They say things like, “Remember ME when you get there.” “Don’t forget about ME when you get to the top.” “Don’t forget about the little people.”

They put their 2 cents in to try and secure a place with you right before you make it. And still, they watch from a distance. They don’t want to support or help the cause and/or dream, but they want to enjoy the fruits of someone else’s hard working labor.

And the crazy thing is, is that those who do this, would be in denial. No one wants to believe that this type of person being described would be them. They would not claim this description, even though they may shake their head in agreement while reading this.

It literally is funny how that works. I have seen it. Watchers won’t reveal themselves to you. They are too smooth for that. They ease drop and every 2 or 3 months they either call you or stop by to chat with you on FB or Twitter to see if you made it yet. But they don’t just flat out ask you that question. Its indirect.

If it has happened to you, you understand where I’m coming from and understand what I’m talking about. I’ve peeped that sorry game, but one thing I can definitely say about those who watch from a distance, is you learn about what is to come, you learn about who people really are, you learn about who is really on your side and who wants to see you succeed, you learn about how they see you and some see you as a foot stool.

Its nothing to be mad about. You can’t do anything about that, but you can be more aware of whats going on and pay attention to what people are saying and implying through casual conversation. You can be more observant to your surroundings and be street smart.

Watching from a distance is a safe zone for some people. They don’t want to be embarrassed or ashamed that they were seen with you or at one point in time, they were supporting you. They are concerned about whose watching them. They are afraid to be affiliated with an idea if it goes south.

I speak this from experience. I’m not just making this stuff up. I don’t write or speak just to hear myself talk. If I did, I wouldn’t like myself, but since I do like myself, I speak and write with purpose and reason. Somebody out there may not be aware of those who just watch.

There are watchers at all kinds of different levels, but you always have the traditional watchers, in which I described above. Those watchers never change. Stay on the look out, especially when you are a person who dreams BIG and that dream starts out as a concept that you believe in!

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Music NEVER STOPS!

Its just like NIKE’s 2011-2012 slogan,

“BASKETBALL NEVER STOPS!”

Its the same with music.

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

Its in us, apart of us, in every fabric of our being.

Can you imagine putting an album together of all the songs that you’ve sung/performed in the shower.

Man, “It would be a Stellar Hit Album”

MULTI-PLATINUM!!!!!

I don’t need to specify what type or what kind of music, that’s not the point. The point is, is that it is in you. I always say that everyone one possesses some type of artistry, the difference is, is that everyone is on a different level of expressing the artistry.

Leonardo DaVinci thought so. He is one of my favorite all-time artists.

Again, it is the same with Music.

Music is a life story, kind of like those Disney musicals. Now most guys, think musicals are corny, but if you think about it, that’s what your life is.

When we laugh, when we talk, when we hum, when we play instruments, when we step, walk, run, clap, even when we moan and groan (You know what I’m talking about, don’t act like you don’t!!!!) etc. Everything I listed and didn’t list carries a tune, carries a song, carries the music inside of us.

It is that music that keeps us going, that keeps us entertained or spiritually uplifted. It keeps us motivated and/or busy. It gives us purpose when seeing your kids happy or your spouse. It keeps us on our toes on the job. It keep us in tune to whats going on all around us.

We can try to ignore it or shun it, but its always there. Like air, we can’t breathe without it. We just can’t. Like love, we can’t live without it it. We just can’t.

It is contagious. It can spread faster than anything because music comes in so many facets in which it exists. You can not focus on just one thing.

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

It holds too much weight in our lives. And even in denial we naturally summon to its identity.

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

“Music NEVER STOPS!”

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